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Published on June 15, 2013, by in Toasts.

When bad things happen to good people, we always seem to ask why. Which is the beginning of every great story.

For writers, the best advice is to continually say “no” to your characters. They are trying to get home for the holidays, like Steve Martin in Planes, Trains and Automobiles. No. They need to defeat the evil Empire before it enslaves the galaxy, like the Rebel Alliance in Star Wars. No. They need to stop the giant meteor from colliding with earth and extinguishing life as we know it, like Bruce Willis in Armageddon. NO!

When a character gets that first NO at the beginning of a story, whether in a book or movie, it becomes the catalyst for everything that follows. If Steve Martin had caught that first taxi in Planes, Trains and Automobiles, if he hadn’t tripped in his foot race with Kevin Bacon, if he hadn’t haggled with the lawyer, if John Candy hadn’t stolen the cab, if the weather hadn’t been bad, if he hadn’t been robbed… No, no, no, no, NO!

And we laughed. Sure, we felt terrible for him. We felt bad for his wife and children. We even felt awful for John Candy and the string of others he met along the way. We’ve all been told no. It’s a natural instinct that when we see someone else get the same no as we’ve experienced, we automatically cheer for them to succeed.

It causes stress. It causes conflict. It causes pain. And suspense. And drama. And laughter. That’s what good movies and all great stories are. When the characters we love finally overcome all the obstacles and get home, or defeat the Empire, or save the world, we are crying tears of joy, applauding their triumph. Because by that point, we’ve struggled along with them and their success is now ours, too.

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Published on June 8, 2013, by in Toasts.

“…weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.” Psalm 30:5b KJV

“Comedy is tragedy plus time.” -Carol Burnett

My son and I were talking yesterday about how much more difficult it was to pull off comedy than drama. It’s easy to make people cry, because everyone has suffered to some degree at some time in their lives.

As far as books and movies go, a Nicholas Sparks story can bring anyone to tears. He tells tales about love that suffers through unthinkable tragedy and endures somehow—even through the loss of a partner.

The thing is, even if we haven’t gone through the same tribulation, we all can certainly imagine losing a loved one, and just thinking about that can make us misty.

The more difficult task is seeing that same devastation and finding humor in it. I think Carol Burnett is correct in her method—time. Time heals. Time provides wisdom and hindsight. Time provides perspective.

Somewhere in all of that, we tend to find humor. We, as humans, crave joy and laughter. We need it to survive. We need it to make sense of all the bad stuff we deal with every day. Let’s face it, there’s so much terror in this world that we don’t have to look very far to find something to make us cry. Finding something that makes us smile and laugh is a treasure.

That’s why truly beautiful comedies are rare. They require a great story and perfect timing. The best comedies incorporate lots of other emotions, too. They satisfy.

One of my favorite comedies is Mr.Blandings Builds His Dream House, (1948) starring Cary Grant and Myrna Loy. This film follows a couple who fall in love with the American dream of owning a home, and the nightmare that accompanies it.

As a home designer, I recommend this film to my clients as a way to see what they are about to undertake. It’s slightly exaggerated, but not too much.

Myrna Loy in Best Years of Our Lives trailer closeupWe laugh as the characters go through one ordeal after another, because we’ve all been in similar situations.

Of course, it wasn’t funny when we were going through it, but to see Cary Grant and Myrna Loy crammed into a teeny-tiny bathroom—with her primping and him trying desperately to shave in the same minuscule mirror—we can’t help but laugh.

Perspective. Time. Joy.

Cary Grant

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Published on June 1, 2013, by in Toasts.

I love animals (except birds, who seem to have a personal vendetta against me). My family has two cats and two dogs, and we spend a considerable amount of time each day “speaking” for them. We talk to them, too—of course. We ask them all sorts of questions about what they’d like to do, eat, where they’d like to go, etc..

Archie  Paden  Poe  Checkers

But when I say we speak for them, I mean that we watch their facial expressions and their body language, and then interpret it aloud. On occasion our whole family will have lengthy conversations that are mostly the “words” of the cats. (The dogs generally just say, I love you, Food! and Let’s go.)

They definitely have personalities. Poe—our 13 year-old black cat—is hateful and lazy. She prefers the company of my husband and oldest son, and seems to think that she is the owner and master of the house. Checkers—our 5 year-old tortoise calico—is loveable and playful. She does not understand why Poe won’t cuddle with her.

I suppose most folks love animals to some degree or another. Consider how much the media covered the devastation of the horse farm or the recovery of a single dog after the Moore, Oklahoma tornadoes. Animals are integral parts of our lives and families.

I think back to one of my favorite movies of my youth, Oh Heavenly Dog, (1980) starring Chevy Chase, Jane Seymour, Omar Sharif, and mostly Benji. (My dog, Archie, looks a lot like Benji.)

Oh Heavenly Dog

For the Love of Benji

This is a fun family whodunit with a little canine twist. Chevy Chase is a detective who is murdered at the beginning of the film. He returns to earth to solve his own murder in the body of a dog. He must communicate with his human friend, Jane Seymour, not only to solve his murder, but to save her life as well. After his character’s demise, Chase provides the voice for Benji. The audience can hear the loveable dog’s thoughts, but the other characters cannot.

This provides the perfect vehicle for human empathy with animals, and allows us to connect in ways we’ve always suspected, but never proven. It’s also loads of fun.

While Oh Heavenly Dog is not appropriate for very small children—it’s about murder and a love-triangle—it does make for a fun family movie night. If you haven’t seen it, you’re sure to enjoy it—if you love dogs, that is.

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Published on May 27, 2013, by in Toasts.
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I find myself bombarded with endings this month. My baby is graduating from high school. Many of my clients are wrapping up their projects before the summer months. And of course there are all of the television series finales.

This week Facebook has been filled with posts like, “NNNOOOOOOO!!!!”—just watched Grey’s Anatomy finale.” Or, “I’m just too much of a Deacon-girl to handle this episode,” in reference to the last episode of Nashville.

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Click to see and Purchase! While many of our favorite shows will be coming back next fall, some are gone forever. I was a big fan of Vegas, and it will not be returning. I did appreciate that they wrapped up all the story-lines in the last episode.

My biggest fuss this month has been how so many of the finales seemed to cram too much into one episode, especially considering the pace of all the other installments. Each week the plots would almost crawl as the writers explored every nuance of every relationship, and then the last hour raced through scenes at break-neck speed. I felt a bit bewildered and whip-lashed. Nashville, which is typically a very well-written serial, jumped so quickly through each scene that I felt as though I watched the last episode through my old View Master. (If you don’t know what a View Master is, then you’re probably too young to appreciate Nashville.) View MasterI would have liked to see some of the subplots wrapped up an episode or two ago. But alas…

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One of my other favorites, Grimm, took two hours to finish up its season. I like that better, and I LOVE Grimm’s afterward titling: “To Be Continued…Oh Come On, You Knew This Was Coming.” It was the perfect aside.

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Every ending brings a new beginning. My son will begin a new chapter of his life. I’ll start new projects with new clients. While many of the TV series have ended for the season, others are just beginning. My summer favorite, Covert Affairs, returns in July, and I can’t wait!

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Published on May 18, 2013, by in Toasts.

This is the beginning of my favorite movie season. As Summer begins, lights, camera, action takes on a whole new meaning.
Cars race, super-heroes triumph, space ships launch, and rivals face off. It is time for some action, and I love it.

Now maybe it is because I am the only woman in a house full of men. Maybe it is because so many of the chick flicks these days are overly formulaic. Whatever the reason, I have become somewhat addicted to the action movie.
I loved Iron Man 3, and I will be seeing Star Trek Into Darkness as soon as possible. I cannot wait for the Lone Ranger and Man of Steel as well.
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I love the rush of adrenaline as the story races at a staggering pace to a climax. Let’s face it, I’m forty-five, have a desk job and live in a rural area on the high plains. I don’t really have many adrenaline rushes in my life these days. There are a few horses in my neighborhood, but very few spaceships and even fewer super-heroes (unless you count my in-laws, who are pretty amazing.)
While I do look forward to plenty of lazy days in the summer shade, I definitely plan to spend plenty of time in the cool theatre enjoying some white-hot action.
What action movies are you most excited about this summer?
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